Introduction
It is immensely easy to get lost in the rise and fall of life forgetting ourselves and our purpose. There are thousands of attractions and repulsions that can easily divert you to different paths and ways of life. In all confusion and mystery, we are haunted by the questions: ‘What is my purpose? Who am I? Why am I in the way I am now? Am I doing what I love and enjoy? Have I found my life’s objective and meaning? Am I happy and contented with, who I am right now?’
Be Yourself
The absolute necessity is to be you; rather it is not a mere choice. You have to find out that inner position in your life where you can live and grow peacefully and certainly. The discovery of your true identity relieves you of all the unnecessary strife and struggle you are undertaking day night.
The purposeless and meaningless life always bears pains and pangs and sufferings, there is no sign of peace and comfort. Life is an uncertain long and painful journey to who still has not framed out what they want to be and do. Each and every moment reminds them of their uncertain identity. They are haunted by the strangeness of their daily experiences.
The first and foremost question you have to ask yourself is: Who am I and what is my objective here? Some of us often avoid such questions that do not give any immediate answer to our problems. Only those who have gone through their life without asking any such questions realise the importance of getting to the core of their beings and living from there.
Life is what it is supposed to be; it is neither beautiful nor ugly, neither good nor bad, neither this nor that. The only problem is that very few people are interested in life; rather they are interested in money, comfort, recognition, success but very rarely do they explore the fundamentals of living.
Being you is a crucial assertion of your personality. You are the sole symbol imprinted on all your experiences. Once you discovered your identity, you will understand everything happening around you. A constant and steady pursuit of your objective is to discover the key that makes life a grand adventure. The ways of living is grander than succeeding or failing which are simply matters of statistics and opinions
Conclusion
Whatever you do: Ask a question, understand, argue, fight, love, care, explore, etc. the ultimate aim of life is a quest for your grander self. Remain indifferent to the responses of the people to your ideals and your ways. They have no idea about your reality. What they know about you is just their point of view. Try hard to discover the diamond in you and stick to your course of adventure from the core of your being, let your personality grow and shine out in the midst of the darkness of commonness and crudeness. Do not let that light of your uniqueness die. The grandest gift to you from God is you and there is no experience grander than being you.